A Time When this Deity has Refused to Help

I like to say have I relationship, not a religion.  I don't spend my time asking for things or praying for things that I can do myself.

I believe that deities have better things to do than to worry if my football team wins a game.  Or if I lose 20 pounds.  So there hasn't been a time in my life when I have been refused help from Hecate as I don't ask favors of her.

I ask that if these things are meant to be shown to me, let them be illuminated.  The path is there, the torches are lit.  It is up to me to find the way.